What to Expect from an IPV Screening During a Medical Appointment
1. Private Environment: Your healthcare provider will conduct the screening in a private setting, ensuring confidentiality and safety.
2. Simple, Direct Questions: Expect questions about your relationship, safety, and any concerns you might have. Questions may include, “Do you feel safe at home?” or “Has anyone hurt or threatened you?”
3. Non-Judgmental Approach: The provider will listen without judgment and offer support, understanding that discussing IPV can be difficult. You should never feel forced or pressured to disclosed IPV.
4. Referral and Resources: If you disclose IPV, the provider may offer resources such as advocacy, counseling, safety planning, and connections to local domestic violence programs.
5. Documentation: Any disclosed information might be documented in your medical record, so it’s important to discuss how this will be handled and who will have access to it.
How to Talk to Your Healthcare Provider About IPV
1. Prepare for the Conversation: Before your appointment, think about what you want to share and any specific concerns. It can help to write down key points or questions.
2. Choose the Right Time: Ask your provider for a few extra minutes during your visit to discuss a personal issue. This can be done during routine check-ups, prenatal visits, or when filling out health history forms.
3. Use Clear Language: Be direct and specific. You can start by saying, “I’m concerned about my safety at home,” or “I’ve been experiencing some issues in my relationship that I’d like to talk about.”
4. Ask About Confidentiality: Before disclosing, confirm that the conversation will be confidential. This ensures your safety and comfort.
5. Request Support: Your provider can connect you with resources like advocacy, counseling, legal aid, or domestic violence services. Don’t hesitate to ask for help in creating a safety plan or finding local support organizations.
6. Bring a Support Person: If possible, bring a trusted friend or advocate to your appointment for emotional support and to help communicate your needs.
7. Follow Up: Ensure that you understand the next steps and any referrals provided. Schedule a follow-up appointment if needed to discuss progress or further concerns.
